Itching To Say “I Do”

There is something very interesting that happens when a woman starts to suffer from Ring Finger Erectile Dysfunction (a term taken from Cinderella Was A Liar) suddenly her naked finger pops up at inopportune moments and causes her to act and react in ways she normally wouldn’t dream of acting.

If you are interested in getting married and your significant other is not moving forward fast enough there are things to consider before you drag him into therapy or start demanding he jump on your timeline.

First, how is the relationship? Is he committed and loving? Are things going well? If so, there is a good chance he is not financially prepared to take the next step with you. Most men see marriage as a financial commitment and they want to be able to take care of their wives and not just have the money to buy a nice cushion cut.

Secondly, why are you stressing out about getting married? Are you interested in the wedding or the marriage? Are your friends all getting hitched and you are feeling like you need to keep up with the Jane’s? A marriage is a lot more than popping a question and walking down the aisle and saying “I do” only offers you a piece of paper that confirms you said it. The best thing a woman can do is relax and allow him to move along at his own pace. If she’s been waiting 10 years and he’s not asking and she wants to marry, then it’s time to sit him down and ask him if marriage is something he is interested in if he says no, move on. If it’s been 3 years, relax and for goodness sakes, get off of TheKnot.com!